Is it REALLY possible to 'wipe the slate clean'? Please i need lots of answers and advice...?

Yes, it is possible to wipe the slate clean, I can tell you! The key is absolute, unconditional forgiveness! You and your husband NEED to wipe the slate clean in your own minds and the rest will fall into place. What also helps, is to remember what brought you together in the first place. Remind yourself....what was he wearing the night you met? What made him approach you? What was it about him that attracted you to him? What did he smell like when he held you in his arms the first time he did hold you? Find your way back to each other by remembering who you were as a couple and why you became a couple. It is so easy to do, but we, as humans, get so caught up in everyday stresses and responsibilities that we forget each other, our relationships take a back seat to problems and we lose touch with each other. Another thing is, imagine your lives without each other. How would you feel if you could never see or hear each other again? Don't take each other for granted, learn to appreciate each other for what made you fall in love in the first place. Good luch and God bless both of you.