How come i have no problem getting guys, but girls, i cant for the life of me?

i can get any type of guy i want, and i DONT give them any initiation that i want anything like relationship/ual wise to do with them, they know im , have been a year & im a soft butch, btw, i dress butch, do my hair and makeup like a femme, and treat women very respectfully, like a gentlemen(but im a girl), so whats up with that???? my love life is the worst i swear! and i dont want a guy and nobody will change my mind, girls only