Why is it that many gays tend to behave and dress like their gender opposite? R u scared to answer this?

This is called a stereotype my friend. I'm gay and I dress & act far from the way you see it, that's why many people are ignorant, they follow simply what they observe through the obvious rather then the reality as a whole. The stereotypical appearance of the way you envision a gay man is actually a minority in the gay community, the reality is that some of those straight looking men who walk among you on a daily basis can be gay but go undetectable just because they fit in with societies stereotype of a straight acting male. Not every gay male will have a high pitched voice, aspirations to be a Fashion designer or flamboyant. For example I for one am a sports car enthusiast, don't care to much for fashion, I rather spend the time going to the gym or watching the game rather then going to the mall. Not everyone is the same.